The CAN’T You CAN Use2/26/2019 You CAN’T have/make long term goals/commitments with short term people. You CAN’T seek happiness in people or things, it can only come from within. You CAN’T have someone help bring out the best in you if you keep expecting it to come from someone else. You CAN’T keep living in the fear and/or doubt that you don’t deserve better, guess what? You do and you are enough! You must have Faith in order to see the vision. Dream big and believe that no dream is too big for GOD. The amazing thing is, sometimes he gives us more than we could ever dream of. Are we ready to receive it? That door won’t open, if you aren’t ready for what’s on the other side. And it doesn’t open if it’s not your door.
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Rayology - saying vs. believing4/25/2017 Today's Rayology - Saying something and believing something are completely different things. With Faith you can't simply say you have Faith you have to believe that God is truly with you. That God is truly in Control. Being repetitive with your thoughts and with your prayer. Have you ever been around a person who does nothing but lie? Someone who keeps saying things you know aren't true? They say the same lie over and over that they have to keep with that lie and they actually start believing in that lie as being true. Same goes for negativity and hate. When someone does nothing but cast doubt on themselves and on what is going on in their life, they don't see the many blessings that they do have. Instead they put so much focus on their problem. When you grow in Faith and believe in the unseen it's amazing how things start changing in your life. Take one positive thought and build on it ( if you woke up today start with that, trust me it's a blessing to be alive) be thankful for every opportunity, have Faith and never lose hope; your life can change in a moment. Pray it say it believe it. Talk it, walk it and live it. Have you ever heard the saying you can lead a horse to the water but you can't force it to drink it. Well God is trying to lead us but the choice is ours whether or not we want to drink it. Your situation may or may not change but you can definitely change how you view that situation. God Bless. #givemore #lovemore #livemore #spreadlove #Rayology #PowerOfWords #BeADifference #GROWTH #innerPeace #HappinessIsAnInsideJob #photogrid @photogridorg
What For?2/17/2017 What For?
Inner Peace What For? Because Love Is better than Hate, Joy is better than Pain Truth is sometimes we must go thru trials and Tribulations, Pain and suffering To be able to Grow, to build Faith, to appreciate Joy when it comes, Love when It’s given, it’s easy to believe in a higher power when things are going good But how many fully believe when things are falling apart? How many believe that there is In fact, light at the end of the tunnel when you can’t see it? I can’t see a lot of the miracles that God has performed in my life. But, I do look at everyday as amiracle. I have Goals, Dreams and Aspirations but my main focus is to be better than I was yesterday. To Grow Mentally, Physically and Spiritually. What For? To let my mother know that her hard work & unconditional Love was and is not in vain. Her selflessness, the values she has shown and instilled in me will not be discarded. What For? Because I have always been a good person at least I would like to think so, but I spent a lot of my life with resentment, disappointment, anger and loneliness. As I sit here and write; I smile and rejoice because although I am still single, I am not lonely, I am not alone. Although I still get moments of frustration and my life is not where I envisioned it would be. I am not angry, I don’t feel disappointment for I know it’s not where I necessarily want to be, but its exactly where I am supposed to be. I had resentment mainly towards my Father because we didn’t have the relationship a father should have with his son and vice versa but before he passed; I felt like I was able to let go of that resentment. I felt like we were finally making an effort to communicate, who knows maybe he knew his time was coming. I am thankful and grateful for that. What For? Because I lost out on many opportunities in relationships withsome great women and I use to put the blame on them for the relationships not working out, but that’s not right I can only blame myself. I blame myself because as confident as I am, I didn’t value myself as much as I valued the one I was with or trying to be with. I put women on a pedestal and there is nothing wrong with that, what was wrong was that I should have put myself on a pedestal right next to her. I was always searching for a Queen or a Princess, yet I didn’t view myself as a King or a Prince. I wanted and tried to love deeply when at the time, I didn’t fully Love myself and for that I apologize to the women I dated. I for a long time put the blame on them for cheating on me, for not giving me a fighting chance, for taking me for granted, when in reality they aren’t to blame at all. All the heartache and rejection was necessary. I would have never found myself nor would I have ever learned to love myself because I was so caught up in being loved and looking for someone orsomething to make me happy when my happiness was in me all along. I believe things happen for a reason, everything serves a purpose whether we understand it at the time or not. I put so much pressure on myself and forced things that should never be forced. I wanted what I didn’t need, and would on many occasions find those who needed me but did not want me. I was very angry and frustrated on that fact until I understood that, I was losing myself in the process of trying to find someone. I had to go through all that to grow in my faith and learn to Give more, love more and Live more for the right reasons and know that everything else will for in place as it should. I had to help those who could not help me, I know to give and not expect to receive. Do I want and miss having someone? Of course I do, I miss the companionship, the random messages, the deep conversations and their warmth when in my arms. But the truth is I do not, I should say will not trade that for my inner peace. I will not trade it if it means it will pull me away from getting closer to God. I after all these years, found happiness, despite my imperfections I can say I am truly happy with who I am and the daily growth that I have been pursuing. If I find or am sent someone who can add to that happiness by all means, I will not push that away. Do I feel that I can be the man/boyfriend I would like to be? No not really. I am the romantic type and like to do romantic things, too many things have to be in sync at the present moment for me to say that I can truly invest and give to a woman all that she deserves, I will be honest I don’t think I can. I am still focused on my self-improvement and I do not think it will be fair to myself any woman. I believe in God’s timing. So, if and when he says its time then it will all make sense, It would just flow, it will not be forced and it would not take away from my growth, it will only add to it and me to hers.I realized that no one can open any door God has closed and no one can close any door God has opened. So, when you ask what for? My answer is to live in God’s purpose. Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live? Rayology - Motivation Monday1/4/2017 Do not look at today as crap its Monday. Look at today as a new day, a new beginning, a new opportunity, another blessing. Look at today and see it for all its wonders, focus on all that's good with your day with your life, however small you may think that good is. We all have different ordeals going on in our life that we may or may not know about. But today I ask hold on to all that's right in your life, hold on to that unconditional love from your family, friends and most importantly to that unconditional love God gives you despite our faults. Give your worries to him and thank him for all things going right and thank him even if things aren't going right. We all have a choice in how we want to view today and if we are alive and breathing isn't that enough to view it as a blessing? Isn't it enough to be thankful for? Isn't it enough to smile and be happy for all you have and those you have around? Isn't it enough losing someone you love, no longer having them around in the physical form to truly appreciate the value of life? It's hard we aren't perfect (only God is) but lets focus on all the blessings and have faith in God's purpose. For we should never lose hope and always have faith. Happy Monday.
Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live? Rayology - Dec. 30th (2Day)1/1/2017 Two days from now it will be a new year. Two days from now, we will say we are starting fresh. Two days from now, you will start working out. Two days from now, you will be more appreciative of those you love. Well guess what, two days from now might never come. Two days from now is out of our control. I am focused on 2Day because 2day is all I have. 2day is a good day to workout, 2day is a good day to start fresh because waiting on 2morrow is just not good enough for me. 2day I will have a good day. 2day I will thank God for opening my eyes and giving me another day to Live(Can I?). 2day I will learn and grow from the joy, pain and choices made, for I know God has a bigger plan for me. So 2day is all I'm looking forward to. For when we focus on 2day there will be no 2morrow, cause 2morrow will always be 2Day. GOD BLESS!
Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live? Rayology - Want vs. Need12/14/2016 I do not want someone who needs me in their life, that's for parents and kids. A mother and/or father should want and need their kids in their life, kids should want and need their mother and/or father in their life, but a man and woman should not a man or woman in their life. What I want is someone who makes it clear that they WANT me in their life. Its great to feel needed but ever better to feel wanted. To grow together, build together, laugh together, no one wants to be alone I know I don't but I also don't want to be in a relationship by myself. Get it, Got it, Understand, Understood? Good! #GodisLove #LoveisLife #CaniLive
Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live? Rayology - Trust In His Plan12/14/2016 With God we are never alone, I thought about life today as I was driving to my friends house and it reminded me a lot of Florida's weather, it was raining down hard dark and gloomy but as I kept driving the sun was out. Basically I thought even when we experience dark times in our lives as long as we keep moving forward better brighter days will come. And when we fully learn how to be happy with ourselves being with anyone that isn't adding to that will be unacceptable. Trust God'S Plan and his timing, for it might not be what we came for it will be even better.
Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live? Rayology - Eyes on the Prize12/14/2016 Too often too many of us tend to keep our eye on the prize yet rarely do we ever keep our eyes on it. If you want something bad enough one eye should never wander. I myself can't force anyone to see what I see or feel what I feel but I can force the change I want to see in me and understand that everything else will come as it should. Money can't buy happiness Mr. Robin Williams showed us that, always make sure to love yourself no matter how much you love everyone else. I am rich without the money, left an imprint on many lives and them on mines and that can't ever be taken from me. Life is and should always be worth living not only for yourself but for all those who you they will be missing. #Godislove #loveislife #canilive
Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live? Thoughts (part 2)12/13/2016 To all the single people, some of us want to be single, some of us long for companionship, some are single because they have been hurt before and don't want to feel that pain ever again and I say forget that. I have had my share of women, some I prefer not to mention, some of which you might already know, some of them was like damn what was I thinking ( I am sure most of us have had at least one of those) and a couple may be reading this right now. What I am saying is nobody truly wants to be alone, if you say you do you are lying to yourself point blank. I have been hurt (cheated on) by a couple girlfriends who I cared for very much. But I will tell you this, I would risk getting hurt again and again if it meant that the next one would show me that real love powerful enough to pick up all them pieces from the past throws them out and refills it with new pieces that erases the pain yet keeps the appreciation. I mean I have my faults I know I do, I also know I'm no longer single by choice per say. I never had a problem getting back on the horse, it might take a couple of months if even that but I get back on. Yet I never go into it thinking she is going to be like the last one. I treat every woman I meet as an individual until she shows me otherwise. I refuse to let a "chicken head" or should I say a woman who hasn't grown enough yet to take away from the possibility. I let a couple get away and a couple just didn't give me a fighting chance, but some of you live life with eyes wide shut and its going to end up biting you in the a$$. Oh and before I forget whoever said you can't find a good catch at a club, go to church or a library, please save it. Yes the ratio may be lower but fact is there are "chicken heads" everywhere especially nowadays, but beautiful respectable women do go to clubs and what would be considered hoes do go to church so get off that. Listen I'm very humble and everyday something new happens to make sure I stay humble, but at the same time I am a confident man far from cocky just feel the overall qualities I possess are unmatched. I know single people who want to act like they enjoy waking up to someone new every week ( i was one of those people) when in reality they long for someone they can let their guard down for. But you already know it's a 2 way street, so if you yourself don't make an effort to at least let them peek into your heart then how can they even begin to heal the pain if you decide to hide it. In my life I have experienced many things, learned many lessons, one thing is for sure I have never experienced something as exciting as the possibility of love. I felt it all too briefly and as I said before I also let 1 or 2 good ones get away, not to mention a great one that I admire from afar out of respect till this day. I have dreams of tremendous beauty yet a lot of the times she has no face, not sure if it's because I have yet to meet her or if it's because she is too far to be reached. Its quite possible that her face as beautiful as it may be, it's not what captivates me most about her and just in case you are wondering it's not her body either. Its her inner qualities that has held most my dreams captive. Basically I know what I am looking for and I'm at the stage in my life where I'd rather be single than in bad company. But I will take a chance if I feel there is a chance to be taken, meaning if she possesses at least some of what I am looking for.
This is part 2 of a 2 part series Orginally written in 2008 Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live? Thoughts (part 1)12/13/2016 To all those in relationships, cherish the one you're with, you don't realize how good you have it ( it will be too late when it's gone). Don't let ego and pride get in the way of something that isn't broken and therefore doesn't need to be fixed (but if it's obviously broken why keep wasting each other's time and simply settle for where you are at, when you deserve to be somewhere better). Too many times people ruin something that could have been great out of the fear of MAYBE getting hurt. You owe it to yourself to take that chance especially in today's world. Too many times relationships end just because of selfishness or as I like to call it self-sabotage. If you say you love someone yet refuse to open yourself up to what they love or love to do, is it really love or simply an extended good time? Compromise and opening yourself up to trying new things is a must if you want to keep a relationship, along with the given communication and trust. Stop looking at her/him as someone who did you wrong in the past, understand it's someone new who can easily be someone you pushed away, if you don't smarten up. Come on there's nothing like waking up next to someone you adore and know they are yours. Someone who when you look deep into their eyes you are at a loss for words, while your mind envisions what paradise looks like with them by your side. Some people jump into marriage because they found someone who can tolerate them, yet instead of understanding they are no longer single, they do the exact same thing they were doing before, so why get married? Never understood that. I also never understood why so many women stay in abusive relationships or ones with obvious cheating, why? Those that stay in it for the kids, believe me the kids would be much better off with 1 parent rather than having to watch their mother get beaten for not having the food ready in time or what have you. Think about it when you say for the kids. Now there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, we all know that. But there are ones close enough to it that are worth fighting for, unless of course you have exhausted the possibility of working it out. Let me say this, the ONE might have broken your heart, but have you ever stopped to think you might be pushing away the ONE from healing that very heart.
Part 1 of a 2 part series originally written in 2008 Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin' with Positivity Can I Live? |