Thoughts (part 1)12/13/2016 To all those in relationships, cherish the one you're with, you don't realize how good you have it ( it will be too late when it's gone). Don't let ego and pride get in the way of something that isn't broken and therefore doesn't need to be fixed (but if it's obviously broken why keep wasting each other's time and simply settle for where you are at, when you deserve to be somewhere better). Too many times people ruin something that could have been great out of the fear of MAYBE getting hurt. You owe it to yourself to take that chance especially in today's world. Too many times relationships end just because of selfishness or as I like to call it self-sabotage. If you say you love someone yet refuse to open yourself up to what they love or love to do, is it really love or simply an extended good time? Compromise and opening yourself up to trying new things is a must if you want to keep a relationship, along with the given communication and trust. Stop looking at her/him as someone who did you wrong in the past, understand it's someone new who can easily be someone you pushed away, if you don't smarten up. Come on there's nothing like waking up next to someone you adore and know they are yours. Someone who when you look deep into their eyes you are at a loss for words, while your mind envisions what paradise looks like with them by your side. Some people jump into marriage because they found someone who can tolerate them, yet instead of understanding they are no longer single, they do the exact same thing they were doing before, so why get married? Never understood that. I also never understood why so many women stay in abusive relationships or ones with obvious cheating, why? Those that stay in it for the kids, believe me the kids would be much better off with 1 parent rather than having to watch their mother get beaten for not having the food ready in time or what have you. Think about it when you say for the kids. Now there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, we all know that. But there are ones close enough to it that are worth fighting for, unless of course you have exhausted the possibility of working it out. Let me say this, the ONE might have broken your heart, but have you ever stopped to think you might be pushing away the ONE from healing that very heart.
Part 1 of a 2 part series originally written in 2008 Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin' with Positivity Can I Live?
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