Thoughts (part 2)12/13/2016 To all the single people, some of us want to be single, some of us long for companionship, some are single because they have been hurt before and don't want to feel that pain ever again and I say forget that. I have had my share of women, some I prefer not to mention, some of which you might already know, some of them was like damn what was I thinking ( I am sure most of us have had at least one of those) and a couple may be reading this right now. What I am saying is nobody truly wants to be alone, if you say you do you are lying to yourself point blank. I have been hurt (cheated on) by a couple girlfriends who I cared for very much. But I will tell you this, I would risk getting hurt again and again if it meant that the next one would show me that real love powerful enough to pick up all them pieces from the past throws them out and refills it with new pieces that erases the pain yet keeps the appreciation. I mean I have my faults I know I do, I also know I'm no longer single by choice per say. I never had a problem getting back on the horse, it might take a couple of months if even that but I get back on. Yet I never go into it thinking she is going to be like the last one. I treat every woman I meet as an individual until she shows me otherwise. I refuse to let a "chicken head" or should I say a woman who hasn't grown enough yet to take away from the possibility. I let a couple get away and a couple just didn't give me a fighting chance, but some of you live life with eyes wide shut and its going to end up biting you in the a$$. Oh and before I forget whoever said you can't find a good catch at a club, go to church or a library, please save it. Yes the ratio may be lower but fact is there are "chicken heads" everywhere especially nowadays, but beautiful respectable women do go to clubs and what would be considered hoes do go to church so get off that. Listen I'm very humble and everyday something new happens to make sure I stay humble, but at the same time I am a confident man far from cocky just feel the overall qualities I possess are unmatched. I know single people who want to act like they enjoy waking up to someone new every week ( i was one of those people) when in reality they long for someone they can let their guard down for. But you already know it's a 2 way street, so if you yourself don't make an effort to at least let them peek into your heart then how can they even begin to heal the pain if you decide to hide it. In my life I have experienced many things, learned many lessons, one thing is for sure I have never experienced something as exciting as the possibility of love. I felt it all too briefly and as I said before I also let 1 or 2 good ones get away, not to mention a great one that I admire from afar out of respect till this day. I have dreams of tremendous beauty yet a lot of the times she has no face, not sure if it's because I have yet to meet her or if it's because she is too far to be reached. Its quite possible that her face as beautiful as it may be, it's not what captivates me most about her and just in case you are wondering it's not her body either. Its her inner qualities that has held most my dreams captive. Basically I know what I am looking for and I'm at the stage in my life where I'd rather be single than in bad company. But I will take a chance if I feel there is a chance to be taken, meaning if she possesses at least some of what I am looking for.
This is part 2 of a 2 part series Orginally written in 2008 Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin with Positivity Can I Live?
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Thoughts (part 1)12/13/2016 To all those in relationships, cherish the one you're with, you don't realize how good you have it ( it will be too late when it's gone). Don't let ego and pride get in the way of something that isn't broken and therefore doesn't need to be fixed (but if it's obviously broken why keep wasting each other's time and simply settle for where you are at, when you deserve to be somewhere better). Too many times people ruin something that could have been great out of the fear of MAYBE getting hurt. You owe it to yourself to take that chance especially in today's world. Too many times relationships end just because of selfishness or as I like to call it self-sabotage. If you say you love someone yet refuse to open yourself up to what they love or love to do, is it really love or simply an extended good time? Compromise and opening yourself up to trying new things is a must if you want to keep a relationship, along with the given communication and trust. Stop looking at her/him as someone who did you wrong in the past, understand it's someone new who can easily be someone you pushed away, if you don't smarten up. Come on there's nothing like waking up next to someone you adore and know they are yours. Someone who when you look deep into their eyes you are at a loss for words, while your mind envisions what paradise looks like with them by your side. Some people jump into marriage because they found someone who can tolerate them, yet instead of understanding they are no longer single, they do the exact same thing they were doing before, so why get married? Never understood that. I also never understood why so many women stay in abusive relationships or ones with obvious cheating, why? Those that stay in it for the kids, believe me the kids would be much better off with 1 parent rather than having to watch their mother get beaten for not having the food ready in time or what have you. Think about it when you say for the kids. Now there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, we all know that. But there are ones close enough to it that are worth fighting for, unless of course you have exhausted the possibility of working it out. Let me say this, the ONE might have broken your heart, but have you ever stopped to think you might be pushing away the ONE from healing that very heart.
Part 1 of a 2 part series originally written in 2008 Rayology My Thoughts Written Down Vibin' with Positivity Can I Live? |